Asking For What Your Heart Truly Desires

“I Love myself and so…” is a phrase you may have noticed I use a lot. It’s my fave, my go-to, and has become my signature and tagline. 

And today I am going to share with you one potent and powerful way I action this phrase on the regular! 

I Love myself and so…I make time to notice what my heart truly desires and then I ask for it.

This is one of the most powerful ways you too can create a truly delightful life.

And I am going to share with you exactly how.

First, a story about a recent heart’s desire of mine come true.

A few weeks ago I was bursting at the seams after a magical weekend I called Bestie Palooza.

This magical weekend came together seamlessly after I asked aloud for that which I truly desired. Here’s how the events unfolded:

I had been walking in the woods behind the house in what is this magical patch of woods when I came upon a tree. It’s a very old Oak tree with 3 distinct trunks that form a bowl in the middle of them.

And this very clear desire bubbled up from my heart: I desire to have my besties with me at this tree for my birthday.

My birthday was coming up soon so I spoke my desire out loud.

I want you to understand that there is such magic in simply speaking your desire.

Magic isn’t dark or spooky. It’s real and around us all the time as part of nature, and when we can connect to it intentionally and harness it and understand the formula of it, we can participate in it on purpose and create a life filled with our heart’s greatest desires.

So I had this crystal clear image of myself standing around the tree hand in hand with my besties, and I just said it, I spoke my desire out loud. This is what I wanted for my birthday.

Well, on the weekend we celebrated my birthday, you bet that these 7 women were there with me around this gorgeous Oaktree. Each of these women lives a robust full life, a few of them even came in from another city. What I want you to hear is that this event came together with such ease and grace and flow. Seamlessly, almost effortlessly, and with such joy, as if by magic. We came together each with something to share, each receiving a magical gift. It was absolutely perfect.

The manifestation of your heart’s true desires is possible for you too. Let me break it down.

• First, you must make time to notice that which your heart truly desires.

• Then notice any resistance you may have, maybe you are not sure if you truly deserve this desire or not, maybe you find yourself thinking this is silly, or too big or it will burden someone else. 

Notice how you judge that which your heart truly desires and be with the resistance to clear it. Gently forgive whatever you need to so you can move the resistance. 

• Next, Then speak your desire out loud.“Abracadabra” is one of my favorite words. It literally means “that which I speak becomes real.” So speak your true desires. Get them out into the oxygen. Birthing your heart’s desire verbally is the beginning of making them real.

Finding your tribe is imperative.

Find your tribe - a group of people you can say anything to. I Love myself and so…I have taken the time to find the people with whom I can share anything. Have you found your tribe? Who do you share your biggest desires with, things that you feel shame around, things you think are ridiculous? Find those people who you can share anything with, who will Love you, won’t judge you, who will receive you, and support no matter what.

This is how I access the magic of life and you absolutely can too. Connect deeply with yourself to discover your heart’s desire, then bravely speak your desire out loud to those you trust with all of your heart, and you can create an unbelievably delightful life.

And the true beauty is that speaking and living your desires is not just magical for you, it’s magical for those around you too. You will become a true inspiration for others.

So I encourage you, today, take some time to connect deeply with yourself. Listen closely for the whisper of your heart of hearts. What is it that you truly desire. Who can you speak that desire to? Who can you dare to say “I have this crazy dream and I want to tell you out loud.”

And if you can’t find someone to say it out loud to, someone that feels safe enough, I want you to find me on social media or email me or join me in the Self-Love Masterclass and I will absolutely hold space for you to speak your hearts desires.